Each Tuesday I try to help create positive thought by suggesting slight shifts to our thought process. Jenny Lewis is one of my favorite singers and an extremely extremely talented song writer. From Rilo Kiley to the Watson Twins to Voyager I have been along for the ride.
One of the lyrics that has stuck with me the most is "You are what you love, not what loves you back". Let that sink in for a minute. You are what YOU love. Everything that you put your energy is what reflects on you, not who happens to love you. You can apply this to so much more than romance.
You are creativity. You are passion. You are healthy. You are devoted. You are loyal.
You are whatever you set your intentions towards. So instead of being discouraged, set your focus on what you want to love. Stop giving power to things, people, situations you cannot control.